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I Pray For You

04 Tuesday May 2021

Posted by Cougar Sangria in Second Life

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Amara Beauty, Amias, Catwa, Focus Poses, Ikon, Izzies, J's, Maitreya, Roosters n Chix, Second Life, Second LIfe Fashion, Seniha, Simple Bloom, Stealthic, Ysoral, Yummy

I am kind until I have no other option but to be unkind. – Cougar Sangria

I Pray For You – Jaron and the Long Road to Love

I’ve held on to this post, uncertain if I should even acknowledge these pitiful creatures. Written a week ago, there have been several rewrites since then. It is time. My unedited thoughts can be found on my Flickr.

I lead a relatively quiet, uneventful life in Second Life these days. Well, as quiet and uneventful as it can get for Second Life and Cougar, lol. That was not the case during the first year of residency here in SL. I was griefed and trolled to the extent it was difficult to enjoy doing anything here. It came to light that a spurned suitor had set his hounds from hell upon me. Thinking back about it, I’m sure they had a good laugh at my expense. I’ve never forgotten that experience and how helpless I felt and how ill-equipped I was to protect myself. Fast forward to the present.

The first IM I received a few weeks ago took me totally by surprise. Then one message became five, five became twenty, and so on. Last week by Wednesday, I had one hundred-eighty-seven private messages for the week. I’ve racked my brain, trying to figure out who I may have wronged, and I have come to the conclusion I haven’t wronged anyone. This is jealousy, pure and simple, over some perceived idea that I was horning in on someone’s territory. All of this over a man? Are you kidding me? How petty can one get?

I’ve done what has been recommended by Linden Labs. I am no longer a helpless and ill-equipped Cougar in this virtual world. In my eleven years here, no matter how bad it’s been, I’ve never considered leaving and never considered using an alt to ‘disappear’ into Second Life. I refuse to let supposedly adults that act like children dictate my Second Life. Cougar is here to stay, and I say to the troll/trolls, “Bless your heart. I’ll pray for you” Smiles.

Be kind to one another. Till we meet again. ♥

What is she wearing?

For information on mesh body, bento mesh head, and their respective accessories please visit My Favorite Things.

Roosters n Chix: The Veteran Western Hat

Stealthic: Porcelain

Yummy: Auspicious Necklace

Seniha: Gaby Shorts & Top

Ysoral: Luxe Ring Sara

Amias: Danika Gacha RARE & ULTRA RARE Rings

Misha Jesuil: Infinity Ring

Maitreya: Dahlia Socks

J’s: Western Boots

Focus Poses: Hello Spring Pose 9 Modified with Animare Plus

My Kind of Love

21 Wednesday Jan 2015

Posted by Cougar Sangria in Guess What Day It Is, Lingerie

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*ARGRACE*, Fashion, Guess What Day It Is, Heart Garden, Home & Garden, HPMD, Hump Day, J's, Landscaping, Lingerie, Lingerie in Second Life, LumiPro, Maitreya, Second Life, Second LIfe Fashion, Second Life Home and Garden, Slink, [DDD] Dysfunctional Designs, {we're CLOSED}

I need want someone who sees the fire in my eyes and wants to play with it ~ I.S.F.

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Nothing protects the heart like patience.

Don’t get your hopes up too fast.

Don’t let your fears speak too loud.

Don’t give your doubts too much time.

Not everybody is built to handle the rough times.

Can’t be surprised when you fall off with certain people.

Few people understand what it really means to be there for somebody.

And that’s the roughest part about being on a journey,

you realize the main ones that said they’ll ride,

are the first to fall off.

People make promises when the sun is shining

and make excuses when the storm comes.

That’s why I am always thankful for the rain…

it washes away the unnecessary.

The reality is, you could be amazing, genuine, and sincere,

but still be overlooked.  Because honestly, people don’t

want something real anymore, they just want reasons

to complain and excuses to avoid.  Having a good thing

is so hard because meeting a strong person is so rare.

So I’ve learned to respect when people run from me,

I realize my kind of love ain’t for everyone.

I’m at peace with that.

-@RobHillSr

I get many compliments on these boots when wearing them out. So glad I got the fatpack. I’ve had them for a couple three years now and still I haven’t come across any mesh that equals the detail. Maybe sometimes you just can’t improve on a good thing.

Today is Hump Day and I pulled out another set of system lingerie which, btw, will henceforth be called vintage on this blog.  I love vintage, especially when it is done well.

Wearing my favorite hair with cowgirl hat as well.  I am wishing for some long hair that falls down to my waist with a cowgirl hat, and has no hair hanging over the front, cause sometimes a gal wants to show off dem puppies ya know.  Well…at least I am not afraid to show em off, and if the men can show theirs, so can I 😛  Happy Hump Day!  Be kind to one another.  TWMA ♥

I want to thank:

Tuli Skins : Claire Radiance Bronze & makeup

Blacklace Beauty : Pout Gloss

*ARGRACE* : Cowboy hat/MINAMI black

Slink : AvEnhanced Casual Hands

::c.A.:: chocolate Atelier : Flora white bra and panties ( no longer available) but now carries appliers in other styles

Maitreya : Dahlia socks white

J’s : Western Boots Red

oOo Studio Poses : Cheesecake 5

LumiPro : Used for pinpoint lighting

Home & Garden:

Botanical : T2C Linden & Aspen Trees

Heart Garden: Aspen & Wild Mountain Pine Trees

HPMD (Happy Mood) : Dirt road brown, sweet garden grass 07

[we’re closed] : Grass field lush, old well

[DDD] Dysfunctional Designs : Chicken Coop

ROXY : Blue Barn

ABC (Awesome Breed Creations) : Paint Horses

**Photographed at Lost Horizon, Azumi using Noble goes Dutch 1 windlight

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